I think and I actually believe most of how we will act in our marriages is set before we leave our parents home in our late teens/early twenties. We’ve learnt most of what we need to learn in terms of values, beliefs, mindsets etc. We’ve observed and seen enough to make up our minds on how we will run our homes when we get married.
That means if we need to break the chains of wrong mindsets and values, it must begin with parents. It must begin from our homes
So parents, you have the responsibility to model godly values and mindsets to your children. It is more of what you do than what you say. So, let that change begin not just because of you or your spouse but because of the children who will become just like you when they grow up. The world is hurting please, don’t add to it.
Dare to raise godly children not just by words but most importantly by your deeds. Model godliness, kindness, respect and love to your children.